One of the eternal questions that men ask women that they never seem to have answered to their satisfaction is, what do women want? What is it they desire? The problem with that question is there is never any one answer. It’s not even an answer that varies from woman to woman. It changes from day to day and even from minute to minute with individual women. What they want never seems to be consistent, and frustratingly, they seem to expect men to be able to read their minds. This kind of behavior is one of the things that, honestly, drives men away from the traditional dating scene and toward the escort scene, which affords them a much better romantic experience without the strings attached. Escorts overall provide a much better experience than dating “amateur” or non-professional women, and you can bank on that.
Going out with a Vegas escort is much better than going out with a non-professional woman, but if you do decide to engage in traditional dating, there are some things we’ve been told that women do find a turn-off when they come from men. We aren’t any farther along trying to figure out what it is that women do want, but at least we can help you to know what is that they don’t want. Perhaps, armed with that information, you can accomplish something along the lines of improving your position and talking some hot young thing into bed. When you’re ready for a more reliable, stress free, relaxing, and fun dating experience, though, we hope you’ll contact us and arrange to book one of our stunning Vegas escorts. Then you won’t have to worry about any of this (although some of this advice is just good advice for men overall).
Okay, according to a recent study, here are some things that supposedly turn women off pretty inconsistently.
1. Discrimination and Bigotry
Like it or not, we live in a pretty politically correct world. Every woman is different, but overall, they’re not comfortable with overt prejudice and bigotry. Hey, we’re not here to judge you, but we believe everybody is the same from the waist down, and we think you should do whatever it takes to increase the chances of getting some action. So if you are out with a girl, especially for the first time, don’t give in to the temptation to say things she might considered bigoted or discriminatory. Now, if you find out over the course of the date that she and you both share some of the same issues, well, that’s up to you, we guess. But on the whole it’s better if you just try to keep it light and politically incorrect when you’re getting to know somebody and maybe even trying to talk them in between the sheets.
2. Looking Like Hell
A guy who doesn’t take care of himself is going to find that he’s turning off women pretty darned quick. You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt, but there’s some stuff you’ve got to really be looking after. Your clothes shouldn’t look like they have’t been washed since the Eighties, and you don’t want to look like you slept in them. You also don’t want to look like you’ve been awake for three days straight. Deep bags under the eyes, pale skin, a few days worth of scraggly beard, hair that is not clean or hasn’t been styled… these are all things that make women think negative thoughts about you and your personal hygiene. That brings us to…
3. Smelling Bad
One of the major turn-offs for women is a guy who smells bad. Smelling bad can take on a few different dimensions. You can use too much cologne or body spray and that will make you unpleasant to be around. It may be a pleasant enough fragrance by itself, but if you lay it on too thick, it can be absolutely overpowering and cloying. You don’t want to make people’s eyes water when they get close to you. But if you just have really bad body odor, that’s even worse. Nobody wants to smell dirty and nasty, and there is nothing that is a worse mood killer than smelling like that. Sex surveys are pretty clear on this point. If she unzips your pants and a nasty stink comes out, that’s going to kill the mood and she’s going to walk.
4. Playing the Field
Women like to feel like they’re the only one in your life. It doesn’t matter if it’s true. They have to believe it or they’re going to get turned off. They’re going to start to think that they’re not good enough for you by themselves, and that will get them upset, and most women are pretty insecure when you come right down to it. Nothing kills the mood faster than triggering a woman’s insecurities about herself, so make sure you let her know that she’s the only one you’re dating, and cover your tracks if that’s not exactly true. Be prepared for the night to end early if she finds out in the natural course of things that you’re dating other people.
5. Being Bad In Bed
Guys hate to hear this, but you’ve got to have skills if you’re going to light a woman’s fires. If you aren’t good in bed, invest the time in self-help books and self-help videos. Even better, hire a Vegas escort so you can get comfortable around beautiful women, and talk to her about what is that women love in the bedroom. You need to get better fast if you want to have any hope of getting with anybody. Being bad in bed is pretty much a deal breaker for all women, universally. They don’t want to tolerate you fumbling around down there.
There are other things that women don’t like, but if you keep these basic guidelines in mind, you should do pretty well for yourself. Women are complicated creatures but if you take decent care of yourself you can improve your chances.