Smoking hot Shay is an amateur belly dancer who also enjoys a clothing optional lifestyle. She likes to go out to night clubs and believes very strongly that it takes a certain kind of girl to be a truly excellent escort. She is known for her outgoing, fun-loving, vivacious demeanor.
“People have a lot of silly ideas about belly dancing,” says Shay. “I think that’s because you don’t often see it unless you are fortunate enough to see an exhibition when you’re out at an event, or you see it on television or in a movie. You picture these cartoonish versions of the Middle East, or you picture your fantasies of harems, and these are all interesting images. They don’t happen to bear any real resemblance to the reality of belly dancing today, though. I think what I like about belly dancing is how uniquely feminine it is. It’s the perfect expression of a woman’s body. It’s all about her stomach, her hips, the way these are connected, and the curves of them. Women are not built like men and men cannot possibly hope to replicate what woman does when she belly dances. That’s why there are no male belly dancers. It would just be ridiculous concept.”
Shay goes on, “After all, what is belly dancing? It’s a way of focusing on the hips and the pelvis of the woman’s body. That is and always has been a celebration of fertility. It is uniquely a woman’s sort of thing, not something that a male body can do. That isn’t a way to exclude men. It’s just a way to celebrate the unique curves that a woman has. Because, let’s be honest, there is nothing better than the curves of a woman’s body. I have always been happy to be a woman because I like my unique combination of curves.”
The topic of curves sets Shay off a little bit. “That’s something I should talk about, too,” she says. “I work hard to maintain this body, which men like. Part of my job is to be pleasing to the eye, and to make a man look good by turning on the other men who see us together. A man has to look at me and become jealous of the man who is with me. He’s got to be so turned on by my smoking hot body that he can’t help but wonder why my client has me but the man seeing us together does not. All of that, maintaining my body, takes work. But you get these ridiculous women these days who use the term “curves” when what they really mean is “fat.”
Shay has no sympathy for those who let themselves go physically, at least not if they are women. “I like all types of guys,” she says. “Fat ones, skinny ones, well built ones, and men who are somewhere in the middle. I like bald guys, guys with hair, and guys with beards. It really doesn’t matter to me. Men can be sexy and fun no matter what. But a woman who gets fat isn’t sexy to anyone. And if she tries to cover up that she’s not even trying by claiming that she “loves her curves,” well, that just makes me mad. She’s basically telling us all that we’re supposed to believe she is attractive just because she demands that we do. Well, honey, I’ve got news for you. No matter how politically incorrect it becomes to point out that a woman is fat, no man is ever going to see her as beautiful. You might even succeed in making men so afraid of the negative social feedback that they never actually criticize a woman out loud over her weight… but they’ll still be thinking it. You can’t make a man feel turned on if he isn’t. And you can’t force him to go for a woman that it just isn’t in him to want.”
Of her clothing optional lifestyle, Shay also has plenty to say. “It doesn’t happen that often,” she says. “Unless I’m home, I don’t get to be as naked as I’d like to be. But it has always amused me that people say the folks you find on a ‘nude beach’ are never the ones you hope to see naked. When I go without my clothes, I never have that problem. And I know that everyone around me is giving me their undivided attention. That’s a good thing, because if there’s one thing I really like, it’s attention. I like being right in the thick of things. When people are watching me, and following me with their eyes, and staring at me but then hoping I won’t notice, it makes me feel good. It makes me feel really sexy . Every woman wants that.”